In Campus I had a plus
size friend, Anne (Not real name) and people used to throw all sorts of mean
comments at her. Comments are not all she got, blank stares and wired looks
were things Anne was accustomed to. However,
this never lowered her spirits
even for a moment neither did it influence her character. Anne was the most
jovial and kindest person I knew in my four years in campus.
I will never forget the
day she stood in front of a certain group that was fond of teasing her and she
said, “You guys laugh all you want but if we were living in our grandparents
time, I would be the only one who would be married to a chief.” This
was enough to silence all her critics for a long time.
For decades, people
have considered being petite as the ideal woman figure. To be honest, this is
just a creation of the media our ancestors valued women with mass. Being
painfully thin comes with its share of challenges. You may not understand this if
you have not had to shop in the children’s section so as to get something
fitting.
There is nothing wrong
with being a plus size, what matters is you health. I know a good number of
middle aged women struggle with weight and today my message is for you. Stop
hating yourself and be proud of being a real African Woman.
We all remember the
famous Slimpossible Show hosted by Lillian Muli on Citizen Television. She did a nice job helping women keep their
weight in check but I still think the whole idea was prejudicial. The show
should have been hosted by a real plus size who had lost weight and could
relate with what those women were going through. Secondly, the main objective
of the show should have been living a healthy life rather than loosing maximum
kilogrammes possible.
There are those who
agree with me on this issue of being a plus size, and that is why Suzie Wokabi took the initiative to
organise a Miss Plus Kenya Beauty
Pageant. The pageant was launched last year December and the beauty queen
was crowned on 28th February
in a very colourful ceremony.
The lady who took the
crown was given the responsibility of being the ambassador for the Diabetes Kenya Association. As part of
her reward she also gets to be on the cover of the next issue of Couture Kenya Magazine. I am sure you
are already wishing that you had a chance to take part in the contest.
There is no need to be
depressed anymore simply because you are a plus size. Go out there and seize
all the available opportunities.
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